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5 Questions to Ask Before Falling in
Love
By Sandra
Grauschopf
Long-term relationships fail for many reasons,
but one of the most common is incompatibility in important areas of your
life. It’s all too easy to overlook major differences in the first bloom
of love, but will the traits and beliefs that seem endearing in the first
months of a new relationship still be acceptable in five, ten, or forty
years?
The sad thing is that a painful breakup could
have been avoided, simply by having an honest discussion of important issues
before the relationship got too deep. If you take a hard look at the ways
you differ from your new flame, you can spare yourself a broken heart and
a lot of time down the road. Here are five questions that you should ask
yourself before your relationship gets too serious.
1. Are Our Politics Compatible?
Politics is an issue which is often ignored in the early stages of a
relationship. Who wants to think about global warming when you could be planning
a romantic getaway? However, people tend to be passionate about their political
beliefs, and differing views can cause relationships to explode. Falling
in love with people who share your political tendencies will make a smoother
road to travel in the future.
2. Are Our Religious Views Compatible?
Opposing religious views might work out for two adults who respect one another,
even if you do have difficulty reconciling your agnostic views with his
dedication to spending Sunday mornings in church. However, they can become
a strain in a long term relationship, especially if you plan to have
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3. Are Our Patterns of Communication
Compatible?
Some couples frequently flare up at each other, shouting and yelling over
every little problem – only to be doting on each other five minutes
later. Others would be badly hurt, preferring to discuss disagreements calmly
and peaceably. Difficulties often arise when communication patterns within
the relationship vary widely.
4. Do We Have Similar Visions of the
Future?
When you first fall in love, all you can think about is the next time that
you can see your new flame again. However, this is the best time to consider
the future as well. If you’ve always dreamed of children and she
doesn’t want them, or you envision spending your life in the country
while he wants the glamour of city life, it will be difficult to combine
your differing views into a comfortable life together.
5. Do We Have Similar Ideas About
Love?
Everybody has different ideas about how people who are in love should act.
Perhaps you show your affection through your actions instead of your words,
or you want your independence while your lover wants to spend all your spare
time together. The more compatible these opinions, the easier your life together
will be.
With love, honest communication, and respect,
any of these differences may be overcome. However, knowing the areas in which
you and your new love are not a perfect fit will allow you to address these
issues early on. If you are not able to come to an agreement, you will know
that the relationship will not work before it is too late.
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Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
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contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
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sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
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have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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