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Falling in Love Too Fast
By Gary
Caine
The feeling of falling in love is of the most
exciting, thrilling and life changing events. Falling in love can change
your entire outlook on life. Falling in love can occupy your mind and seem
to take away all of life's problems. However, falling in love can bring about
a serious problem of endless heartaches if a person falls in love too fast.
Let us look at what brings about the feeling of needing to fall in love,
what defines true love and the string of broken hearts that can occur if
one falls in love too quickly.
With these key elements examined, a person may
realize that they are too rapidly generating the feeling of falling in love,
and in doing so, producing unfortunate consequences. A life filled with a
great amount of broken hearts predictably points to a great amount of
relationships in which the person fell in love too quickly. Once acknowledged
as a source of heartaches, one can achieve a more realistic approach to falling
in love and finding someone special.
The majority of adult single people undoubtedly
desire the ultimate feeling of being in love with another person. Instilled
in people's minds is that love will bring happiness, safely and security.
Most people are witness to a loving relationship from a very young age, as
we witness the love of our parents. As adults, the media overwhelms us with
love stories. Countless advertising bombards us to find love. When one is
single, it may seem that everywhere they look; there are couples holding
hands, talking and laughing together. This can produce an overpowering desire
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| Real and genuine love means connecting in
ways that are almost indescribable. Present are the key elements that each
desire in a relationship. There is a strong emotional attachment, as well
as an intense physical attraction. The two people in the relationship spent
time thoroughly getting to know the each other. These people will understand
each other quirks and habits. They will learn each other's history and the
life that they lived up until they met. After sometime, a feeling of comfort
and admiration occurs. As cliché as it sounds, if love is going to
happen, both will have a feeling of "fitting together" and "finding their
better half". If both people involved in the relationship are content and
their desires fulfilled, as time moves on, an increasing feeling of devotion
and affection will change into a deep and strong feeling of love.
Without these fundamentals in place, having the
feelings of falling in love exceedingly prematurely can result in needless
heartbreaking outcomes. It is true that being single can sometimes produce
intense feelings of loneliness. These feelings of solitude and wanting acceptance
into a loving relationship can make one push for a relationship that is not
correct for them. Beginning to spend time with another, sometimes a person
will mistake the feeling of acceptance for the feeling of love. Love is not
something easily obtained. For long periods, love can escape us, as we search
for that someone special that we wish for in our lives.
Telling yourself that you are in love, does not
create love. If not all of the essentials of genuine love are in place,
convincing yourself that you are in love does not magically produce those
necessary elements. If in almost every relationship you enter, you fall in
love within a couple weeks or even days, you must ask yourself; are you really
in love?
Undoubtedly, falling in love produces a magnificent
euphoric high. The emotion of finding one's "soul mate" fulfills a deep desire
to bond with someone. True love is such a rare find. In terms of realistic
expectations, one simply cannot sincerely be in love with every person they
meet or date. Allowing yourself to feel you are in love with almost everyone
you connect with, in a small measure of time, only will lead to ultimate
disappointment. Sincerely asking yourself the question, "Was it really true
love?" may give you the knowledge that perhaps you did not actually experience
love. This is not to imply you did not admire someone, like spending time
with him or her or had lust for him or her. However, did real love exist?
Comprehending that it did not, may lessen the sense of feeling betrayed and
the feeling of being wounded from relationships gone astray.
To free yourself from being the victim of lost
"love", give yourself the time to unequivocally get to know and appreciate
someone, allowing love to happen in it's own due course. Do not impulsively
rush into a state of feeling in love. Seriously consider all of the factors
that ensure a real and lasting love. Give this feeling time to develop. Only
then, can you truly know that you are in love.
Copyright 2006 Gary Caine
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and parenting visit Gary's 3 web sites.
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equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
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This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
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a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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to other are understandable and can be explained and
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