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Healing Depression with Music
By Monalisa
Hyden
It was aptly said that music is the medicine
for broken hearts. No matter how practical and analytical you are, music
will touch your heart removing all the obstacles of logic. Have you ever
felt how a certain track reminds you of a particular incident, or a special
someone? Have you ever asked yourself why Careless Whisper makes you cry?
Summer of 69 reminds you of your school days? Yes, music is much more powerful
than we can imagine. Music can make us laugh and cry and remind us of our
past, can make a moment special with its magical touch, even a certain melody
can take us to a flashback tour. There are songs which remain very close
to our hearts through out our lives, is not it?
No wonder music will be able to elevate your
spirit while you are feeling blue, no matter how bad you feel. You can actually
get over stress, depression and anxiety with the help of music. Could you
ever imagine that music can heal a number of physical and mental problems?
There are specific illnesses and conditions, like stress, chronic pain, insomnia,
addictions, smoking, cardiovascular illnesses, post-traumatic-stress syndrome,
panic disorder/anxiety, overweight, anorexia, bulimia, depression, low
self-esteem, stress, creative or emotional blocks, anger, fear, sadness,
hyperactivity, attention deficit disorder, inner child processing (adults),
stress and insomnia for the pregnant woman, anxiety and pain during birth,
colic and anxiety in the newborn infant, breastfeeding, emotional armor,
conflicts, infertility, cancer, anger, AIDS, infection, fear, lack of
self-respect, immune system suppression, scleroderma, frustration, individual
transformational music, self-reflection, heightened awareness, relaxation,
and inspiration. Today let me tell you how you can get over depression with
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| Step 1: You need to select appropriate
music for you, depending upon how you are feeling right now. If you are feeling
really low, you might think that a peppy music will help you to change your
mood. But the notion is wrong; it might make you feel irritated. So you need
to choose a song to match your mood. You, at first, need to prepare a proper
sequence so that the music can help you. You can create your own music track
and save it for future use. When you are depressed, choose the song which
will take you to the deepest depression and play it at first. Then the next
song should be of mild depression followed by a neutral composition. Then
end it with a composition which is really uplifting and motivating. This
is the proper sequence of a music therapy to heal depression. You can increase
the number of compositions depending on your availability of time and your
personal requirement.
Step 2: You should not listen to music
with your head phone; rather you should use speakers so that every cell of
your body can intake the rhythm and vibration of the music and let the whole
atmosphere in the room fill with music.
Step 3: Women, let your hair down, loosen
your tight outfit; settle yourself down in a way that most relaxing. Men,
loosen your tie knot, lie down and relax, take deep breath while you
relax.
Step 4: Now close your eyes and just listen
to the music compositions and let your heart, mind and soul go with it. Just
release yourself from the logical bindings, set your mind free. If you feel
like crying, just do it! There is nothing wrong in it, you cannot imagine
how venting-out bitter and harmful emotions like anger, pain, frustration,
hopelessness can heal inner wounds. So cry your heart out, I bet you will
feel as if a 20 pound weight has been removed from your heart.
Step 5: You need to pre-plan your time
so that you do not get interrupted till the end of this session. Make sure
that you are not involved in any type of activities during the session to
avoid disturbance. This will help you to receive optimum response to the
transformation process.
Step 6: While you listen to the music,
allow it to reach your inner self just like Enrique sings All I need
is the rhythm divine, lost in the music your heart will be mine
can
you feel the rhythm!
respond freely to it. The way of response
can be different to everyone, you may experience the glimpses from the past,
or visual images, thoughts, intensified emotions, sleep, physical vibration
(you may feel like dancing) etc. Set yourself free and do whatever you feel
like, do not restrict any emotion.
Step 7: When the music stops, do not get
up and get back to your routine. Sit and enjoy the silence and give yourself
time to get back from the world of rhythm.
Step 8: If you can keep a record of your
daily report of your mental condition before and after the music session,
to measure the improvement. Keeping record is helpful but not very
important.
You will sense the difference yourself, I need
not tell you how you ate going to feel after passing an hour with music.
Let me tell you that a plants growth increases if music is played near
it, even a dying sapling can be revived my music. Music is the spring of
unending positive vibration and power which can comfort any ailing living
being, physically or mentally. There is a very strong relationship between
body and mind which we can not just deny because science has not been able
to analyze it properly till now. Music heal mind and mind heals body, this
is the mantra of music. Try the musical tips to heal your depression and
let me know how you felt after that!
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