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How to Break Up - Successfully
By Annelise
Carter
I remember my first break up, where I was the
one doing the breaking up... it was tough, in fact, it took me a whole year
of really figuring out what and how I was going to do it! I was young and
the relationship was such that I was very dependant on my partner, and I
found it very difficult to leave him.
In the end, it got to the point where enough
was enough. By nature, I am a very strong person and to have been in a
relationship for nearly 4 years where I was submissive had finally worn out
its welcome!
It took me a week to get things organised. My
partner was self employed and I did all his bookwork for him, so I arranged
for someone to take over that and also informed his boss that I was going
to be leaving him! Possibily not the smartest thing to do, but I was so worried
about how he was going to take it, that I wanted to make sure that there
was someone that would look out for him... as I still cared about him and
didn't want to hurt him.
The day came and I had written a letter, because
I knew, that at the tender age of 23 I would not be able to utter the words...
I got home from work, handed him the letter and waited. We spent the next
2 hours crying and talking and I ended up packing a bag and heading to my
parents.
It was one of the hardest things I ever had to
do, but in the end it was the best. After a few weeks, I began to see just
how destructive the relationship had been and how he just was not right for
me. Within in 4 months, I had met someone new and was very happy. |
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| Is there any right way to break up with someone?
I don't believe there is, but there are definitely some wrong ways!! Avoid
these when breaking up with someone:
1. Do not break up with someone via a text, it
shows you have no respect for that person and that you placed no value on
the relationship at all.
2. Do not break up with someone over the phone.
This is just about as bad via text!
3. Keep it clean. If the reason you are breaking
up is soley because of that person, then the best way to phrase it is to
say something along the lines that you have grown and changed and that you
just don't feel the same way about that person that you once did. Attacking
someone is never an option.
4. Do not break up with someone in front of their
family or friends! Can you imagine the embarrasment and humiliation they
will feel? This can lead to the person dumped doing drastic things!
5. Do not have an affair while you are still
with someone! This is one of the worst ways to break up with someone and
it hurts the other person immensely. If you feel the pull to someone else
and think you are going to act on it, then is it not fair to end the relationship
you are in? Because if you are having feelings for someone else, you are
already gone...
Breaking up is something that we all face at
some point in our lives... there are a few lucky few that never have to
experience this emotional rollarcoaster, like my parents! They have been
together since they were 19 & 20, and it is a very long, distant memory
of any of the break ups they suffered prior to then!
In the end, all you can do is look after yourself,
be true to you and respect the other person enough to break up with them
face to face.
Written by Lise Carter
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Annelise Carter has been writing on and
off for the past 10 years... mainly in her journal! It was about time that
some of these entries were used to help others and that is just what she
is doing. Annelise has been through a few break ups in her young life and
because of this, has decided to use her experiences to help
others.
Visit her blog here at
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To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
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sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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