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How To Heal A Broken Heart
By Susan
Russo
"The best way out is always through."
-Robert Frost
We all know that breaking up is hard to do. For
years songs have been written on how to get over heartache:
*50 Ways To Leave Your Lover...Paul Simon
*After The Love Has Gone...Earth, Wind & Fire
*Don't Go Breaking My Heart...Elton John and Kiki Dee
*It's Too Late...Carole King
*You Give Love a Bad Name...Bon Jovi
*I Will Survive...Gloria Gaynor
And the list goes on and on and on. Did you ever
wonder why so many people can relate to these songs? Because most people
have lived through it themselves; and by the way, they've survived it
too.
Although you may feel alone and lonely right
now; just hang in there. And just like everyone else; you too will survive
your broken heart.
You may ask, "But what do I do in the meantime
while I'm hurting?" Well, first you have to realize that you can't go around
it, over it or under it. You have to go through it. Getting over heart break
is a process that you can and will get beyond. You just have to allow yourself
a little time.
Don't expect to pick up the pieces in a day or
two; it just doesn't work that way.
Be realistic about healing. The first couple
of weeks or months will be the hardest, but as time goes by, each day will
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| Make sure you keep yourself busy doing positive
things with close friends and family. Don't sit around listening to the old
"break-up" songs; they will only make you feel worse.
It's very important for you to learn how to get
in control of your thinking. If you sit around all day and go over and over
what happened, you will stay stuck in the past. You need to keep your thoughts
focused on what you would like your future to look like.
You're vision should be on creating the life
you want, not on what you've left behind.
We all know it hurts, we all know it's a struggle.
Every time you start to drift back into the whoa-is-me thinking, feeling
sorry for yourself or wondering why things didn't work out the way you wanted,
STOP YOURSELF. Say out loud, "Stop It!"
The more you do this the quicker you will be
on the road to healing. The single most important factor that will move you
closer to feeling good again is learning how to direct your thoughts.
Become the captain of your ship, steer it where
you want it to go. If you master the technique of controlling your thoughts;
you will be on the road to a happy future in all aspects of your life.
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Read more about it at:
http://www.whystay.com
Susan Russo is the President of Pinnacle
Thought Inc. Publisher for books and resources which provide inspiration,
self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal
success and fulfillment. She is editor of "You've Got Power" ezine and author
of "There Is Life After What's-His-Name.
Copyright 2006 Pinnacle Thought Inc. |
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